Thursday, March 7, 2019

Kid update

I wanted to take a few minutes to give a little update on the kids.  We're working on a newsletter as well so hopefully that will be out soon for other updates, but we always get a lot of questions about the kids, so here is a quick update.

Kamryn - Our little miracle baby is truly a miracle.  She's now 19 months old, and she's a lot of fun for the whole crew.  Many of you may remember she had her little bout of croup at the beginning of December, which landed her in the hospital for a few days.  That did not bode well for winter, but I am happy to say that she's been awfully healthy ever since.  Last winter we had kept her sheltered, but this year she's been completely exposed to everything, and she has quite a strong little immune system.  We've seen some sniffles here and there, but it always just goes away, and she never seems to get sick.  Even when our crew got the stomach bug in Colorado, it barely touched her despite all kinds of exposure.  We are so thankful that the Lord has given her what appears to be a strong immune system that has strengthened with age. 

As far as development goes, she's just fantastic.  She's a very bright little thing (though we are completely biased).  Her vocabulary is constantly increasing as is the clarity of her many words.  She also seems to be a climber like Ryan and Jenny, and despite her tiny frame she can really stretch when she wants to climb on something.  She's also a little helper around the house, and she loves to pick up any little piece of trash she finds and get it to the trash can.  (We are particularly pleased that her mouth is no longer her destination of choice for such objects.)

In summary, Kamryn is amazing.  Other than being a little on the small side, she still shows no developmental delays or medical difficulties, and she's just a happy, healthy, and very enjoyable toddler.  Thank you all for your prayers - God has answered them!!!




Kylie, Ryan, Jennifer, and Emily began public school in late January after we had home schooled in the fall.  That transition has gone better than expected. 


Emily is 6 years old and in first grade.  She is small for her age, and there is something in her bright eyes that seems to get people's attention. She has already got quite a few plans for when she grows up and is quite certain that she can do anything.  She is very friendly and entertaining, and she does very well in school.






Jennifer is 7 and in second grade.  She is a very sensitive and creative child.  She is more bold and impulsive than the rest of the bunch, which is sometimes a strength and sometimes gets her into trouble.  She is also on the tall side - she and Ryan are easily confused for twins even though she is actually closer to Emily in age.  Jenny has always said that she wants to be a mom when she grows up, but occasionally she is now saying maybe she'll be a teacher and a mom.  She loves to read, and despite her bold exterior nature, she can often be found sitting quietly alone with a book under a blanket somewhere. 






Ryan is in third grade and is everything you would picture in a nine year old boy. He is always active, and he can do some crazy maneuvers on play equipment.  He reads less than any of our other kids, but he scores perfectly on nearly every reading test he takes.  When he does read, it's usually non-fiction.  He is full of facts and information in every subject - he loves to learn.  He loves math as well and he'd pretty good at that too.  He's a little impulsive but a whole lot of fun despite that nerdy nature.





Kylie  is 11 and in 5th grade.  Kylie is very sturdy and responsible.  She does not understand why other kids break rules.  She wants to be a lawyer/judge when she grows up.  She is a top-notch student who is pretty much good at anything she sets her mind to be good at - mostly through hard work and determination.  She is helpful and is particularly good with Kamryn; they have a special bond.  Kylie tends to have a small group of really close friends.  She can get along with anybody, but she tends to get the closest to kids who share her values.




Jacob is 12 now and in 6th grade, and we waited to get the other kids settled before we put him back in school.  Jacob began junior high almost 3 weeks ago, and he is adjusting really well also.  Jacob is very sweet, and he is most attached to his family and his "home," so we are glad that he has truly enjoyed his transition back to school.  His natural abilities in mathematics are incredible, but communication skills slow him down.  He is taller than me and growing quickly these days.  It's hard to believe how much older he looks now than a year ago.  Jacob is the first one to offer help when someone is crying or hurt and is very sensitive.  His best friend is his brother Ryan.





So, that's a longer-than-expected update on the crew.  I feel like I see the Lord's creativity when I see just how different from each other they are.  Together they are a lively, fun and sweet bunch.

Sunday, February 3, 2019

When I am weak

     I had one of those moments this morning.  I could feel the insecurity that comes from listening to the lies of the Enemy...  "It's taking too long to go...  What's so special about your family?...  I can think of a dozen families more 'spiritual' than yours... ". And on and on.

     And then the Spirit took hold and turned my eyes to TRUTH.  "You are God's workmanship." I was reminded of those that were called in the Bible.  I was reminded of the significance of the fact that the Lord did not choose His disciples from the "most spiritual" of the time.  In fact He spent a lot of time chastising them.  The 12 people He spent His life with were normal men open to learning from Him and serving with Him.  God didn't select us because we are the best or most worthy.  He selected us because we are willing, and He has uniquely prepared our family for the task at hand. 

I just needed that reminder this morning. 

"Brothers and sisters, consider your calling: Not many were wise from a human perspective, not many powerful, not many of noble birth.

Instead, God has chosen what is foolish in the world to shame the wise, and God has chosen what is weak in the world to shame the strong.

God has chosen what is insignificant and despised in the world  — what is viewed as nothing — to bring to nothing what is viewed as something, so that no one may boast in his presence."

1 Corinthians 1:26‭-‬29 CSB

Thursday, January 31, 2019

Big and Little Changes

A Return to Blogging

         Years ago I began this blog to keep a journal of our growing family and to keep our extended family members updated on our little adventures.  Unfortunately, the reality of having that growing family and our little adventures actually kept me from keeping up with this blog.  I have decided to keep the archived posts from years ago because I like to look back, but this is really a new blog with a new purpose.

         As many of you know, we feel called to move overseas and teach and serve the beautiful people of Mongolia.  Some of you have wanted to know more about this journey than we are able to provide in the occasional facebook post and newsletter.  So, this is our attempt to share more.  

         The topics in this blog will vary, but I expect to talk about what we are learning, what our day-to-day is like right now, our challenges, and what we are rejoicing about.  More than anything though, I hope that this blog will share less of our story and focus more on the One who is sending us.  We hope to share our little part of HIS story.

The West Memorial Elementary crew on their 4th (oops!) day of school.
School Changes

        This week has been a much-anticipated week in the Abbott household.  Monday was the first day of school!   

        After a very precious season of homeschooling this past fall, we decided that this semester we would have our middle 4 children return to school.  This was a very difficult decision; we enjoyed our homeschooling.  Unfortunately, it was simply too difficult for me to do anything other than homeschool.  Housework and our support-raising tasks continued to fall to the wayside, and we simply needed some of that time back.  We also think it will help them transition into their Mongolian school when the time comes.

         Part of what made the decision so difficult is that the school they are attending right now is completely new to them.  The school they had previously attended was a charter school with a waiting list, so we would not be able to enroll them there this spring.  We loved our little charter school; they took good care of our kiddos and the leadership was incredible.  Now we are stepping out into the unknown, and this is a little scarier for our kids.  New rules, new teachers, new friends; it's a lot of "new' for kids who are already encountering a lot of big life changes.

           So, we prayed and we prayed and we prayed.  And we sought wise counsel, and we felt peace.  Now we continue to pray and trust that the Lord will be with our kids just as we our trusting him to be with us as we follow His call.  

Sunday, January 6, 2013

Rembering Kaitlyn: Womb to Heaven - 7 Years Ago

     Seven years ago today, Kevin and I delivered our first baby: a precious baby girl named Kaitlyn.  She was stillborn at 27 weeks.  The days and weeks that followed are pretty much a blur in my mind, but I have a few random memories from that time.  Like the "walk of shame" - the long, empty walk out of the maternity ward without a baby to bring home - I sobbed loudly the whole way.   Also, there was the moment when we went to pick up Kaitlyn's ashes from the funeral home and they asked if I was "the mother" and I realized that it was the first time I remembered being called a mother.  There was a ton of support from family and friends, meals were brought, cards and flowers came in.  Life moved on around us, and all I could think about was "my baby is dead." 
     It is so hard to believe that those memories belong to me now.  It is crazy to think that 7 years ago my arms felt so empty that I could hardly breathe, while now I am constantly being reminded (often by random strangers in the grocery store) that my hands are full.  I can look back and tell you a million positives that came out of that dark time.  Like the fact that I now see each child for the blessing that they truly are, the fact that I am a better mother, that I love my children better, that my husband and I have a stronger marriage, and that my relationship with Christ is better - all of these are good things that came out of those dark days.  But the greatest part is something I never could have imagined.  It is the blessing of knowing that one of my six children now lives safely and securely with Jesus.  She will never know pain or heartache; she will never rebel or run from Christ.   She lives in happiness.  She is the one child I will never have to worry about.  This has made me understand the "hope we have in Christ" so much better. 
    Seven years later I thank God for precious time on earth with Kaitlyn, but I also thank God for the opportunity to hold and love on 5 additional blessings.  I pray that God will bring all of our children to Him and give us wisdom as we do our best to raise them to know Him on earth until we can all know Him together in heaven. 

Friday, November 2, 2012

4 Months Old, Halloween, and Life

Emily is 4 months old already, and she is starting to show more and more personality by the day.  She is definitely among the happiest of all of my babies.  She hardly ever cries, and she smiles at us nearly every time she makes eye contact.  She reminds me most of Kylie in temperament at this age, but time will tell her true personality.  Her current achievements include being one of the sweetest babies on earth, getting her head up close to 90 degrees on her tummy, ability to sit in a Bumbo, and sleeping 10 uninterrupted hours at night.  (Yay!) 

 Here are a few recent pictures of the crew including a quick view of their Halloween costumes.  Jacob was very adamant about being a firefighter, and Ryan was determined to be Thomas.  We had to help choose costumes for the girls.  Emily did not have a costume; however, she did attend Zoo Boo as an Aggie cheerleader - Kevin likes to refer to this as a mythical creature since Texas A&M doesn't actually have cheerleaders. 

In case you are wondering, Zoo Boo is the celebration they have at the Houston Zoo for Halloween.  The kids wore their costumes.  They painted pumpkins and accepted the free candy, but otherwise, they weren't too interested in the special activities.  They just wanted to see the animals!

In other news, Jacob used his scissors to cut his hair too short in front, hence the buzz cut seen below.  Enjoy the pictures!


Friday, October 12, 2012

More recent pics

Emily - 3 months
Jacob - 5
Kylie - 4
Ryan sporting his cool Gamecock coat after South Carolina beat Georgia last weekend.
Ryan - 2
smiling Emily - 3 months
the big 4 sharing a snack